The last thing you want to be doing after meeting someone, is to either be sitting or standing there with nothing to talk about. What bugs single women about men who they “bump” into or men they kind of know through friends or co-workers, is the fact that they don’t know how to make small talk. The ONLY way you will ever truly know someone is if you talk to them. Think about what you would like to know about her and ask questions. You can also talk about what you like to do for fun, the weather, sports, movies, etc. Find out what she does for a living and tell her about what you do. The only thing never to talk about are previous relationships and never ask her about hers.
Tip Number Three: Using the dreaded phrases, “I’ll Call You,” or “I’ll try,” and never following through!
Do not, under any circumstances, tell her you will call her if you are not interested and have no plans to call her and never tell her that you will “try” to show up at a party or a bar if she invites you if you really have no interest in showing up or if you have no interest in her at all. What bugs single women about men who use these phrases is the fact that you what you are really doing is leading her to believe that you are interested in her, when you aren’t. I am going to let the cat out of the bag on this one, there are no set “times” when you can in fact call a woman after she gives you her number. The unwritten rule of, waiting three days to call, is just plain stupid. Why on Earth do you want to wait three days to call a woman you are crazy about or want to get know? Time wasted is time you can not get back. Don’t just stand there and watch another guy go out with the girl of your dreams. When she gives you her number, use it immediately.
